Are You Constantly Correcting Your Kids? Try Connecting Before You Correct…

Are You Constantly Correcting Your Kids? Try Connecting Before You Correct…

by Elise Daly Parker 

Several years ago I learned about a concept that has forever changed the way I communicate. It’s called Connect Before You Correct. We yearn for connection — with kids, spouses, parents, siblings, and friends. And the way we build those connections is by communicating, hearing and being heard, giving and receiving love, being concerned for one another, and coming alongside each another in the journey of life. But life is busy, juggling home life, work life, marriage, schedules, who has time for relationship?  [Continue Reading...]

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Discovering The Many Benefits of Rest

Discovering The Many Benefits of Rest

By Sharon Gamble

I came across a Bible verse the other day that reminded me of my reluctant submission to the concept of rest.   Here it is: …In repentance and rest is your salvation, in quietness and trust is your strength, but you would have none of it.  (Isaiah 30:15).  

That part about “you would have none of it?”  That was me.  [Continue Reading...]

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Are You Too Tired, Too Comfortable to Make New Friends?

Are You Too Tired, Too Comfortable to Make New Friends?

by Elise Daly Parker

Do you ever feel like you’ve got enough friends to keep up with? And besides, making new friends can be a little uncomfortable…awkward even. Well I’m generally a people person. I like people. I grew up in a tribe of five. I am genuinely interested in people’s stories and I like to know what makes them tick. I am blessed with a lot of friends. I love them, but I feel like I don’t get enough time with them as it is.

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When “Getting the Job Done” Defines Your Value

When “Getting the Job Done” Defines Your Value

 by Noelle Rhodes

At nine months pregnant, I pulled a small chair to the side of the dumpster. I stepped up on the chair and lifted the lid of the dumpster only to be met with the most horrifying rotting smell I have ever experienced. I held my breath and then jumped in. Yes, I jumped into the dumpster. As I began to tear into the trash bags around me, my panic began to grow inside of me. What if I couldn’t find the painting? What if I had really failed? 

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DON’T MAKE RESOLUTIONS - GET SMART

by Kimberly Amici

This year, let’s go beyond the good intentions and create a plan that will help us achieve those things that are on our heart. But where and how do you start? A good place to start is by creating SMART goals. The acronym SMART stands for: specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and timely. When creating goals for the New Year here are some things to consider:

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What's Your One Word for the New Year?

What's Your One Word for the New Year?

by Elise Daly Parker

But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Matthew 6:33

Happy New Year!

Did you choose your One Word for the New Year?

I have been reflecting, thinking, praying and have finally come up with my One Word for the New Year. Before I tell you what it is let me tell you a little about my journey. [Continue Reading...]

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5 Gifts You Can Give A Parent Of A Child With Special Needs

5 Gifts You Can Give A Parent Of A Child With Special Needs

by Noelle Rhodes

Being a parent of a child with significant struggles has made the journey of parenting...unique. Though at times, it has been hard and heartbreaking, it has turned out to be a great adventure that has changed my life forever. It has deepened my faith and has taught me huge life lessons. [Continue Reading...]

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Are You a Young Mom Looking for Friendship and Fellowship?

Are You a Young Mom Looking for Friendship and Fellowship?

By Elise Daly Parker with Annie Ly Johnson, MOPS Coordinator, Montclair Community Church

MOPS groups “connect moms all over the world to a community of women, in their own neighborhoods, who meet together to laugh, cry and embrace the journey of motherhood.” 

Annie and I sat around her kitchen table a while ago. I wanted to know more about MOPS and only wished I had heard about it when I was a young mom. Here’s Annie’s story. I think it’s one many young moms can relate to… [Continue Reading...]

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In Your Words - Have you found a friend in an unlikely person or an unsuspecting place?

In Your Words - Have you found a friend in an unlikely person or an unsuspecting place?

Our vision is to inspire, empower, educate one another through ongoing community exchange. One of the ways we’re doing this is through our Friday Community column, in a monthly series called In Your Words. We reach out to our contributors and guest writers to ask them a question once a month.

Read what our contributors have to say and share your answer in the comments below.

Have you found a friend in an unlikely person or an unsuspecting place? Surprised by a friendship? Tell us about it.

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Big News - Circles of Faith Is Doing a New Thing!

Big News - Circles of Faith Is Doing a New Thing!

The content on Circles of Faith is relevant, insightful, helpful for intersecting and integrating Life, Faith, and Community. Our writers shared powerful stories that resonated with you, our readers. We want to go beyond the written word, deeper than our 800-word limit allowed. Podcasting allows us to do that.

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Slices - Elise Daly Parker

Slices - Elise Daly Parker

I am thankful for the time that it took me to get the place where I accepted and really loved myself. I don’t think I realized how hard I have been on myself over the years. I wasted a lot of time wanting to be like someone else - thinner, cooler, bolder, more confident, neater, more creative, and less hysterical.

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Slices - Susanne Ciancio

Slices - Susanne Ciancio

Twenty years ago in April, my husband and I went to Moscow to adopt a beautiful little Russian girl, Natasha. The trip and the adoption changed the trajectory of our lives. I had a baby boy more than 10 years prior, who was happy and healthy and the joy of our lives.

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Slices - Barbara Bissig

Slices - Barbara Bissig

After 33 years of marriage, my husband left me and moved in with another woman. I was left single and very alone. At the time, it felt like my life was over, I was rejected. What surprised me about this time was how real the presence of God became to me as I experienced Him as my husband. I

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