Susanne Says - Why Offense Hinders the Changes We Want to Make - Change Part 2

Susanne Says - Why Offense Hinders the Changes We Want to Make - Change Part 2

By Susanne Ciancio, LPC

Is it really possible to make long-lasting changes? One of the big reasons we don't see changes in our lives is due to an offended heart!  We can be offended at God for permitting something to happen or for not making something else happen. We are seriously offended at times by what people say and do or neglect to say and do. 

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I Can't Make You Love Him

I Can't Make You Love Him

by Maude Pych

I can't make you love Him if you don't can't strike a match to cause your heart to blaze at the mention of His Name can't cause you to tremble as I tremble before His holiness can't jumpstart love from the outside in It only happens from the inside out

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The Collyde Summit Gather, Worship, and Become Part of How God is Moving in the NJ, NY, PA Area

The Collyde Summit  Gather, Worship, and Become Part of How God is Moving in the NJ, NY, PA Area

by Angele Tanyeri

The Collyde Summit is a gathering of passionate believers in the NY, NJ, and PA area, who love Jesus and are convicted to become world changers. Collyde turned out to be a life-changing experience for me! To gather and worship in this way was profound.  It also gave me a chance to ‘collide’ with individuals I may not have had an opportunity to meet otherwise.

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When Saving Money Seems Impossible

When Saving Money Seems Impossible

by Elise Daly Parker

So for pretty much the 30+ years my beloved and I have been married, we have been “working” on our finances. Initially, it was just a matter of trying to be responsible with our money and not get in over our heads with debt. Truth be told, our success was short term. Some of this was circumstantial – unanticipated life and salary changes threw us for a loop. But, really? We overspent.

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The ChrEaster Cactus - It's Never Too Late to Bloom

The ChrEaster Cactus - It's Never Too Late to Bloom

by Kathleen Whittam

There is a nickname for people who only go to church on Christmas and Easter--a ChrEaster. My mom has long been a fan of the Christmas cactus, a plant that, oddly enough, blooms around Christmas as well as Easter. I started calling them a ChrEaster Cactus.

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Five Wishes: Aging with Dignity

Five Wishes: Aging with Dignity

by Angele Tanyeri

It is only natural to think about aging, the expected end-of-life experience and/or the unexpected accident or illness.  Anyone who has ever loved and lost knows how very difficult it is to honor the life of our loved ones, especially when we are overcome by grief. The Five Wishes format is a popular living will that allows you to start important conversations and structure your wishes in everyday language.

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Trusting God When You Can’t See

Trusting God When You Can’t See

by Mel Schroeder

2010 was a hard year for us, in many ways. We faced huge life changes and transcontinental relocation, all within a matter of weeks. We had no idea what to expect and had many days when we simply had to hand all of it to our Father, loosening our grasp from what felt impossible.

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How One Man’s Vision Is Saving Is Saving Lives in Rwanda

How One Man’s Vision Is Saving Is Saving Lives in Rwanda

by Brianne Hendrick

It began with a prayer. “God, make me a part of something bigger than myself, something my family can be invested in that will bless your kingdom, something that can only be explained by saying, ‘God is in this.’“ Literally, the day after I prayed that simple prayer, I logged on to Facebook and noticed a dear friend of mine doing mission work in Rwanda.

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It’s Not Safe to be a Black Boy in America…

It’s Not Safe to be a Black Boy in America…

by Chelle Wilson

I’ve endured numerous painful conversations lately with people who love the Lord AND who love me, but who want to believe that things are not the way they are. People who with every good intention need to believe that #BlackLivesMatter is more charged and divisive than relevant, that racism is no longer dangerous, is no longer omnipresent in our lives, that everything in America is okay.

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How I Discovered the Healing Power of Community During Separation and Divorce

How I Discovered the Healing Power of Community During Separation and Divorce

by Wodline Hippolyte

I was crying hysterically while one of my closest friend’s tried to console me. She dropped everything to come over to my apartment after a brief phone conversation. I knew I could call on her because she’d been in my shoes before. Though I was ashamed, she never judged me or made me feel embarrassed about everything I was facing at the time.

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First Friday Book Faves and LinkUp - June 2015

First Friday Book Faves and LinkUp - June 2015

WHAT ARE YOU READING?

That's the question we will be asking COF contributors and you, our readers, each month. Is there a book that you just can't seem to put down, that's teaching you a profound spiritual lesson, or making you laugh amid your struggles? We want to hear about it!

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Susanne Says - Is Change Really Possible? Part 1

Susanne Says - Is Change Really Possible? Part 1

by Susanne Ciancio, LPC

Why do we struggle so much with the change process?  Do we really know God's plan for change? I do know that godly women are frustrated with things we want to change about ourselves and our lives.  We all share in this all too human struggle!  

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Lunch with Jesus

Lunch with Jesus

by Sheri Stewart

I am walking the right path, which is strong steady and chosen by God. HIS love and forgiveness bless my life giving me knowledge that my faith will see me through any storm. Lunch with Jesus today stripped away my lost sadness and renewed my soul.

 

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Are you an Effective Witness?

Are you an Effective Witness?

by Angele Tanyeri

Whether it is recognized or not, every human being has a worldview. A worldview is the overall interpretation of reality based on ideas, beliefs and attitudes that influence the way one sees life and the world. These concepts help mankind create a global image of the world, identify with society and man’s place in it. Communicating what we believe in an effective way – that points people to biblical truth – requires an understanding of biblical principles, respect and tolerance.

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My Summer Not-To-Do List

My Summer Not-To-Do List

by Kristin Hill Taylor

I almost always have a to-do list near me. If a notebook isn’t physically near me, I’m emailing myself something I want to remember or making a mental list. One of my greatest fears is that I will forget. So I make lists. But I don’t want to forget to live with you, Summer, either.

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I Wish I Trusted God The Way I Trust My GPS

I Wish I Trusted God The Way I Trust My GPS

by Sandy DelGrande

Before life with the GPS, I was often reluctant to drive anywhere too far away or any location that required following complicated directions. The thought occurred to me, I wish I trusted God like I trust this GPS. If I did, I could relax and know for certain that, no matter what, God is going to lead me home even when I find myself in unfamiliar places I’d rather not be.

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In Your Words - What are some practical ways you cultivate community and how has that worked out?

In Your Words - What are some practical ways you cultivate community and how has that worked out?

Our vision is to inspire, empower, educate one another through ongoing community exchange. One of the ways we’re doing this is through our Friday Community column, in a monthly series called In Your Words. We reach out to our contributors and guest writers to ask them a question once a month. Read what our contributors have to say and share your answer in the comments below.

What are some practical ways you cultivate community (bible studies, play groups, town message boards) and how has that worked out? 

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Fun and Easy Ways to Teach Your Kids God’s Word

Fun and Easy Ways to Teach Your Kids God’s Word

by Kimberly Amici

A great way to keep God’s Word on our lips and in our thoughts is through Scripture memory. Memorizing Bible verses fills our mind with truth and builds our faith. Over the years, I have found a few things that make Scripture memory easy and fun.

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Lessons from Old Order Mennonites

Lessons from Old Order Mennonites

by Micalagh Moritz

I recently had the privilege of spending an overnight with a sect of Old Order Mennonites in Belize, Central America, where I was living. A surprise to most, there are several Mennonite communities in Belize that are very similar to the Amish in the United States. They have managed to preserve a distinct culture, religion, and way of life despite the climate and culture of Belize.

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Fight Back With Joy by Margaret Feinberg - A Book Review

Fight Back With Joy by Margaret Feinberg - A Book Review

by Joanne Viola

The very word is thrown around as a goal to achieve, an attribute to display, an inspiration on a plaque or pillow. Yet many of us find joy difficult to understand and, at times, harder to find. Fight Back With Joy is a transparent and vulnerable story of a woman's battle to maintain joy throughout a difficult diagnosis.

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